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Erections and porn

Updated: Aug 9, 2023

Have you noticed that in most adult movies the male will just walk into or already be in scene with a fully erect penis? Well Sunny and I were talking recently about about this and how this is not an accurate portrayal. We all know that is not always the case during intimacy and it is an unrealistic and possibly damaging expectation to set for yourself or your partner.


There is so much more then just blood that goes into an erection- resources, mental state, energy from your other partner, sleep, underlying health, etc. What you don't see in many videos is the foreplay, fluffing, or prep that may go into making a guy hard- whether that is from a PDE5 inhibitor (your common ED medications) along with head or a handjob to get him there.


It is a common view that a flaccid penis is not attractive, so most videos just cut out the fluffing and start with the sex right away. In doing so we may have also created an unrealistic expectation for men to just be able to get hard with the snap of a finger and pressure from their partner to just get there, and in doing so we have left out the importance of foreplay for everyone involved. I personally think that this may be attributed to an older style of thinking in regards to intimacy that was produced in a studio directed by men. *In comes amateur porn* We have noticed that more and more people lately, Sunny included, really gravitates toward amateur porn. Porn that feels raw, unscripted, not as produced, and with a couple that truly has a connection. *In walks us* We really wanted to enter this industry with our love, passion, and healthy intimacy to show others a new way of thinking when it comes to foreplay, sex as an experience and not a chore, and aftercare. Normalizing the flaccid dick, the awkward but real moments, the vulnerability of trying something new. In doing so we want to normalize the entire experience of sex, and not just sex till Sunny cums and then camera cuts to black.


So while the beginning of our videos may not be the most exciting, we wanted to leave those parts in because foreplay is incredibly important for both of us, and at times you will see that it may take us both a little longer to get there. Sex is an experience to us, like a hobby, and we are rarely in a rush to just get in and get off. Don't get me wrong, quickies can be amazing 😊. However, it is also important to us that we show you the entire process of playing in our healthy and intimate relationship.


There are certainly times that I am dripping wet ready to go, and Sunny is fully erect through his shorts but that isn't all the time and we don't ever expect that from each other. Our goal is to normalize everything in sex, normalize talking about it- the good, the great, the gross all of it. We want to normalize the conversation around bodies, societal "norms," and exploring your kinks. We also want to normalize the foreplay that goes into sex and the importance of aftercare when you are done playing with each other! +Love Skye


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